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It is so hard!!

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HAVING A TERRIBLE DAY

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Comment by janeo 9 hours ago
Thank you all for your prayers. Her husband and kids are really going too m eed them .
Comment by Marsha H 15 hours ago

Wilela ... sorry for the mistake of 19 years when I should have put 9 down.  Senior moment!  LOL

Hugs

Marsha

Comment by Marsha H 15 hours ago

Stacey ... I am so happy the important people in your lives were at the birthday and the weather held out.  It happens to many of us where we make too much food, but I always feel too much food is better than not enough food and of course more for us.  LOL

I personally when I pour myself into something like guests over or going out where there is a large group of people I am excited to do either, but then memories can flood our minds and we over-do ourselves (not a constant routine in our lives right now) and we are left lingering to our grief and being over-tired. You put a lot of work into this party hon.  I am glad you are going to see a counselor and talk things out, but I think what you are going through right now is very normal.  Please let us know how things go for you.

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Marsha

Comment by Marsha H 15 hours ago

Janeo ...  You know you have prayers coming from me.  I am so sorry to hear about Angela.  Just for your information a good friend of mine passed away a few months before Ernie was to go in hospital and she was in Hospice with brain cancer.  I want you to know that Angela will not be in pain as my friend wasn't and it is a quick way to pass.  It gives little comfort I know.

I often see people that I feel should pass away and leave the good people here to go on, but then I began to realize that perhaps the good people in our lives at some time or other will pass away unexpectedly because their work is done on this earth and they have earned the divine journey into a more loving and peaceful place although I believe they surround us with their love and are there for us when we need them.  These words I've said bring little comfort I know because we grieve so deeply for our spouses and life seems so unfair.  Our loved ones are special and no matter how we think on earth of how unfair it all is they are in a better place.  Sometimes I feel that all those I loved and passed away (especially Ernie and some family members) are in a wonderful place full of love (none other like we've ever felt) and at peace and I feel abandoned and I've missed out on the journey.  We have work to do until our time comes and then I believe we will join them.

Hang on my dear friend and please keep us informed as to how your friend is doing.

Much Love & Hugs

Marsha

Comment by Carol Kayser 19 hours ago
Janeo, so sorry to hear about your friend:(. It just seems that way doesn't it. I am sad for you. I am glad your friend is with Hospice.

Big hug and prayer,
Carol
Comment by janeo 20 hours ago
Chicago Beard just going through a first again you know. When my birthday falls on fathers day we always planed something exra special. But I do thank you for your thoughts they mean a lot to me. How are you doing? Miss you posting and your wise words of wisdom . Your so caring and supportive. Miss ya!
Comment by Chicago Beard 20 hours ago

Happy Birthday Janeo. Hope you were able to enjoy it somehow. Holidays and special occasions are especially emotional and bittersweet.

Comment by janeo 22 hours ago
I need some prayers for this lady Angela i worked with for 11 years. who is about 55 years old. She has brain cancer and had operations to remove, but now it's bigger than before. So the family decided not too anything else cause there's bothing else too do. Hospice is taking care of her. Angela is a great person who always cared for people no matter what. I sick and tired of it always the good people. Why don't he take some of the bad. Why I can't understand. It has to stop already so many people in pain.
Comment by stacey yesterday

janeo- your right about that.

Comment by janeo yesterday
Stacey, one smile can make a great day cause one less tear.
 

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